Q. I am searching for the right spiritual path, after deciding that the time has come to do G-d's will. I now understand that G-d is true, His Torah is true, and that the source of everything is spiritual. For instance: There is no connection between PA incitement and terrorism, because terrorism against Israel is a result only of the sins of the People of Israel; if there would be no sins, no terrorist would be able to hurt us.
My question concerns going to the army. I see many religious-Zionist rabbis who shirk all responsibility for the fact that many boys they sent to the army have deteriorated from a religious point of view. For if instead of sending him to the army or to some college, the rabbis would have sent him to a Yeshiva, it is almost certain that he would not have gone off the right path, or at least the chances of that happening would have dropped prodigiously.
I have asked this question of several rabbis, and from the answers I received, I get the feeling that they don't really care if their students falter spiritually while in the army, as long as they fulfill their obligation towards the country. I would imagine that if a rabbi would send his student to work in an office in a mixed-gender environment [sic; rabbis don't "send" their students to work or anywhere else; every student has Free Will], and he in fact becomes less spiritual or observant because of what he sees and hears there, G-d will apparently have claims against that rabbi.
I feel that the rabbis were gambling with my life and my friends' lives when they sent us to serve in the army. I have friends who were strongly religious before they went to the army, but today are totally secular; I saw them change before my eyes. What will those rabbis say when they see many of those they sent to the army leave religion? What about the Sages' teaching to "stay away from a bad neighbor and don't be close with one who is wicked" (Pirkei Avot 1,7) – such basic advice as to how to remain an observant Jew?